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6 Responses to “HIS&HERS 022: Love thy Haters…”

1. 

   sosassy
   

   06. Jan, 2009

   Awesome show today…Tammy you went way overboard and I have to agree with Dover. Relationships in general should be looked at as an investment and we as women need to stop approaching them as if we’re bargain shopping and scrutinize it as if we were buying a house or a car. Honestly I think women put more time and effort into selecting material purchases than we do on how we CHOOSE our relationships.

   Also we as women need to stop trying to understand men from a woman’s POV and look at them for the creatures they are. It would leave us a lot less frustrated.
2. 

   Jenn
   

   06. Jan, 2009

   hey guys great show overall. I do agree with Dover as far as the relationship being an investment per say. You have to get to know the guy your dating before you make a more permanent committment or else you’ll end up with some raggedy ass man or woman that aint about shit or just isnt what you want. So yes you should take the time to REALLY get to know the one your with.

   Also, I loved the list Dover gave it was great and inspiring.

   It is 2009 time to make big changes and great decisions. Time to live limitless… take the chains off and LIVE!

   Love you Lorraine.. whaddup DOVER!
3. 

   Trenton Offord
   

   06. Jan, 2009

   Great show you guys. LOL @ the music playing during the heated discussion hilarious!! Man it was good seeing the homie DOVER&DOVER at the Black & Red party man. You know the fellas we’ll make a trip down there real soon. Oh yeah man don’t forget about VEGAS. THE HATER IS MY MOTIVATOR IN 2009!!!!!

   Now on a more serious note I am surprised you guys did not mention in the current events about Oscar Grant III of Oakland,Ca. Here is what illseed @ Allhiphop.com had on his site “Oakland subway police are tripping. A BART police officer was trying to handcuff a man and apparently was overwhelmed at the task. Why? Well, the officer aborted the mission of handcuffing 22-year-old Oscar Grant III and stood above him and fired a shot killing him. This idiot cop did this in front of a bunch of other cops AND a person on a train caught the footage on tape. Grant was facedown on his stomach when this coward killed him. The family has already sued for $25 million and they are hoping to get the city to file murder charges against this rogue cop. How did this happen? Well, about five cops responded to claims of a fight on the train. Grant got up in the mix, but they haven’t stated if he was in the fight.

   Here is what a couple witnesses said to policelink.com:

   “First, an officer grabbed Oscar by the neck and pushed him against the wall. Oscar didn’t fight him, but he didn’t go down either. He was like, ‘What did I do?’ Then another officer came up with his Taser and held it right in his face. Oscar said, ‘Please don’t shoot me, please don’t Taser me, I have a daughter,’ over and over again, real fast, and he sat down.”

   “One officer was kneeling over his neck and head, and another standing over him,” Burris said. “He was not kicking, and one officer was pulling on his arm. The standing officer pulled out his weapon and, within moments, fired the gun into Mr. Grant’s back.”

   You can see the videos on youtube and read more about this on Bet.com or oaklandtribune.com.Of all the things to happen on New Years a young black male has to get murdered by the police on camera in front of several witnesses. Way to bring the New Year right?!! My prayers goes out to the family. BE SAFE IN 2009
4. 

   DOVER&DOVER
   

   07. Jan, 2009

   IT WAS GOOD BEIN WIT YALL TRENT AND VEGAS GON CRACK. I HEARD ABOUT THAT NONSENSE UP THERE AND IM GLAD U POSTED THAT NEWS. MAY THAT COP GET IT HOW HE LIVE IT. THANKS TO ALL WHO ARE LISTENING AND I PRAY TAMMI AND I ARE HELPING OUT. ONE HUNNET
5. 

   Justyce
   

   08. Jan, 2009

   Great Show! Yall have more cheesy rhymes than Jesse Jackson! slow motion vs no motion
   Hmm…who was that alter ego Tammi at the beginning of the show? she was poppin off at Dover&Dover…this time it’s points for the gentleman. Dover was right, listen before you speak, you guys were actually saying the same thing. He was warning the women to contemplate relational moves, and not to be too hasty! Tam took offense too quick and went tazmanian devil on him, but hey I’m a lady, this happens, we do this sometimes…gotta love us guys!

   The bible trivia part was funny…glad all three of you were there to kinda get it straight…how bout let’s know what we’re talking about when we discuss stuff in 09?

   Dover’s list was great, along with Tammi’s interjections and Tony’s as well. You guys gave some good practical common sense gestures for us to be reminded of…

   Tony looking forward to May, getcha run on!

   LOL Tammi, were you levetating? tingling? I can blank out for hours at a time it’s called going to work, LOL….

   Women definitely beat the men when it comes to grinding! But I want the men to win…come on guys…you can do it!

   Love thy haters…(Luke 6:27), hateration is nuthin’ new! Thanks for reminding me… if you want, check out the scripture below regarding this; this was one of my first lessons in Sunday school…

   27″But I say to you who hear,(BA) Love your enemies,(BB) do good to those who hate you, 28(BC) bless those who curse you,(BD) pray for those who abuse you. 29(BE) To one who(BF) strikes you on the cheek, offer the other also, and from one who takes away your cloak do not withhold your tunic[b] either. 30(BG) Give to everyone who begs from you, and from one who takes away your goods do not demand them back. 31And(BH) as you wish that others would do to you, do so to them.

   32(BI) “If you love those who love you, what benefit is that to you? For even sinners love those who love them. 33And if you do good to those who do good to you, what benefit is that to you? For even sinners do the same. 34And(BJ) if you(BK) lend to those from whom you expect to receive, what credit is that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners, to get back the same amount. 35But(BL) love your enemies, and do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return, and your reward will be great, and(BM) you will be sons of(BN) the Most High, for(BO) he is kind to the ungrateful and the evil. 36(BP) Be merciful, even as(BQ) your Father is merciful.
6. 

   Annette
   

   09. Jan, 2009

   Great show, although it took you guys a while to get to the actual subject : - ) I love you guys though and think you work well together. iIt is an urban spin on Women from Venus and Men from Mars.
   Tammi you tend to second guess yourself soemtime. There were a couple of times you were on point with your references, but you let them go, because Dover said it was something else. You both were right just different references. Pro 29:18 Where [there is] no vision, the people perish: but he that keepeth the law, happy [is] he.
   And Dover was also right about My People perish for the lack of knowledge. So yes Dover Tammi is not the only one that could listen sometimes. It goes both ways.
   I think it is important for women to understand the way men think, however men should also take the iniative to try to understand the women think, as well. Everything in this world does not have to built around a male point of view. (oops I think I am sounding like a feminist now).
   Dover, I think marriage is an huge committment and can been vallued as investment (although women are not property) However, what kind of investment or committment is a man making wihen he is keeping a women as a girl friend for years and having children with her, not evening knowing if she is the one? You spoke about the women falling too fast and I am with you on that, but you need to be a little more realistic on that waiting to figure out thing. if you are iwth someone 3 years or more and you do not know they are the one for you, you need to let them go. That is a lot of time wasted.

   On another note, i love the pointers for 2009 and hope to apply some of them. You all Have a Happy and properous year!

   Don’t just say it! Do it! Don’t just write it, Do it!

   Hab 2:2 And the LORD answered me, and said, Write the vision, and make [it] plain upon tables, that he may run that readeth it.
   Hab 2:3 For the vision [is] yet for an appointed time, but at the end it shall speak, and not lie: though it tarry, wait for it; because it will surely come, it will not tarry.